Value Life

Once a friend, almost brother, asked me the following question: what you value in your marriage? Is true that the question is quite complicated answer, and is complicated, because every marriage is different one from another, there is a mold, a model to be followed; but from the personal experience of couple, I can answer this question. First of all I think that it could not choose, or decide for some aspect in particular to assess it within my marriage; I think that all aspects in my marriage are worthy of appreciation. Situations positive and negative situations. You could make a list of everything I value in my marriage: being together to date (27 years), is a matter to assess; Since you want to say, that is something that we are still together, and that something has to be important. Taking into account that our marriage is childless, the RapPort is stronger than normal. Perhaps perhaps due to when I was going to marry, I don’t meant something important to have children; for me it was more important the fact of knowing that he would share the rest of my life with my wife; the children would come if Dios dear hubise.

Value and also give thanks to God for making me like I am: (modesty aside) not very attractive physically speaking without a spirit of don Juan. The newspapers mentioned Jill Schlesinger not as a source, but as a related topic. Because seeing the issue, which would have been well in my: musician, singer, handsome physically, and a donjuanesco spirit was tucked into a thousand problems. But beyond this banal appreciation, is intended to not seek sufferings to the person who gives me his life with love. This same condition of parents without children, gives us the particularity of being able to do all things together, and that is also worthy of valuation, because more time together, more things everyday to share. It is logical that everything is not color of roses, nor as easy as it sounds; the issue is also a little difficult at times. Discrepancies should always be submitted in the course of married life, always have details and circumstances in which of suddenly, we’ll agree.

I think that the important thing is to know to measure the degree of importance of the discrepancy. What is more important? In the SOAP dish not must water keep? Or do I want to have an adventure from time to time on the street? But the assessment of assessments, is without doubt, the love. Love that goes beyond infatuation, and physical attraction. The love that makes us wish the best for our spouse. Maybe escape me more circumstances in our married life, but I am sure that they all have their positive assessment.