For force of my profession and experience, I have observed umfato that is if becoming each more current time: the relations between efilhos parents are being mined for arraigados ressentimentos that teimam to emsobreviver and of which, many proper times the involved ones seem not querermais if to move away. Changes in the world are occurring in fast way very, soterrando old values and principles, creating a species of abyss between asduas generations. Such which drops of chuvaque, even so small, go gradativamentecausando erosion and finish invariably causing landslides, the contendaspessoais that occur in day-by-day, finish for solapar the relations between paise children, for more solid than they can have been. A small series of agressese accusations go if accumulating until the moment where they cannot more being contained. By the excess of waters of the discord, levees are breached and feelings ruinsbrotam to the eddies, many times causing irreversible ruptures. From there then, in virtue of past events, they elesou finish losing much time if hating and realimentando essesvelhos ressentimentos, fact leads that them to turvarem its souls, impedindoqualquerpossibilidade of that the life follows its normal flow, without the naturaisbarreiras created for old and exceeded questinculas.
On the contrary of the pardon, the accusation; on the contrary of the dialogue, words cried out and contaminated of anger. Ningumquer to lose land in the field of the incompreenso and the intolerncia. It does not have chancesa to give, the business is to perpetuate the conflict. She seems that people exist who longedo litigation, do not feel themselves well. They are fed of it and of it its existences remove sentidopara all. hour to stop and to reevaluate position.
The metamorphoses, mainly in the field of the moral, the ethics and the customs, are occurring comuma vertiginous speed and many times the people are having dificuldadesem to incorporate them quickly and accepted them. They are not having time of readaptaremseus principles and values. Philosophies that had conducted the people during vriasgeraes are not easy to be moved. It is necessary serenity for osdevidos adjustments to the new times, even because, what he was new yesterday, tomorrow it will jser old and consumed. I do not want to evaluate if such changes are good or bad. Sintoporm, that necessary if makes that the involved people unload and sepultemantigas divergences, remakes its conceptions and looks to a point of equilbrioentre the two positions, creating a bridge of by pair between the two ladosdo abyss. Only thus, guided for the beginning of the transignciaaliado one to a constant dialogue between the antagonistic vises, we will be able to more launch umraio of light on the incited conflicts each time than to vejoocorrerem entrepais and children. Jorge Andres Irion Jobim. Lawyer of Saint Maria, RS